When and before any one contemplates getting married to a Thai woman there a few things a person should understand.

One is although you may love each other and have an understanding of each other while visiting Thailand, you must realize that when you land them in your own home land that they will get home sick and to what degree depends on the closeness of their family.

The culture different and allowances by your self must be given.

For example their food, clothing, their thoughts on moral and sexual issues that are different their family.

Thai woman are normally a very proud type person and changes in clothing fashions take time to change.

As for my self, I have made many mistakes in the way I approached these issues these issues with my fiancée and have learnt many things about patience mainly.

The way we sort of think is to bring them to our country and love them and we sort of think that they have to adapt to our country and ways. That takes time and understanding by us guys.

I found that it was me that had to make changes (little one’s) but very important one’s to enable her to start settling in her new home.

Problems can normally be talked about to a close friend, but in the case of a woman from Thailand that can be a mistake, as quite often advice from friends are of no use unless they understand Thai culture and are on equal terms with your lady.

I will endeavor to write more as life goes on and I get deeper into the mystery or heart of the woman I love and other friends married to the Thai ladies.